8 Types of Boundaries in Relationships

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Many adults realise that boundaries feel hard in relationships because they were never taught in childhood what healthy boundaries look like in practice.

10 Signs you’re ready to see a Therapist

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Do you notice recurring conflicts in your relationships? Or maybe you find yourself self-sabotaging at work or in friendships. Therapy can help you understand these patterns, why they happen, and how to start changing them.

Healing Attachment Trauma through Friendship

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When we talk about secure attachment in relationships, the importance of healing attachment trauma with female friendships is often overlooked. While we usually hear about secure attachment in the context of romantic relationships, its impact on our bonds with other women is equally profound.

Childhood Trauma: How to Begin your Healing Journey

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As a therapist passionate about helping adults to overcome childhood trauma, I’ve started a podcast!  Many people struggle with the aftermath of childhood trauma, without really realising how much the past can impact the present.  When you’ve experienced childhood trauma, it can mean that you can feel stuck in many different areas, without really understanding […]

The Root Cause of People Pleasing

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People pleasing isn’t stopping people from walking away, but it is stopping you from having meaningful healthy relationships with any real connection.

The relationship is built on a lie because when you are people pleasing you’re not forming a true connection.